Success on a Higher Level

March 19, 2009 by  
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dollar1Did you realize you can increase your ability to attain success in whatever you desire by simply consciously choosing to use certain words?

The Guaranteed-Failure Statement
Let’s say you’re fired-up to create a lasting financial improvement  in your life. You’ve set your goals down on paper, and even created a plan of action.

You’ve got fire and desire, and know exactly what you’re going to do. You set your goal for tomorrow morning, and then promise yourself, Starting tomorrow I’ll try to …

You just made a crippling success-ability mistake before you even started – a mistake that will ensure that you will NOT manage to achieve your goal.

What does I’ll try really mean? It means you’ve given yourself an exit, just in case you hit some bumps in the road (and you most certainly will.)

The word TRY lacks intention and confidence. It assumes failure. It says, Alright, I’ll give it a go, but I do NOT expect to succeed. It provides a built-in escape route.

The Over the Rainbow Statement
Now check out how it feels to use an I am statement. Suppose your goal is to feel better and lose a few pounds. You could use the I am statement to tell yourself something like: I am going to feel better by walking 20 minutes 5 days a week.

I am at least does not presume failure. But there’s still a problem when you say I am.

The problem? WHEN and WHERE are you going to take your intended action? Somewhere over the rainbow? This statement, although an improvement, does not reflect a specific commitment to take action.

If you find you’re having trouble committing to when and where, it’s probably time to take a good look at either your goal, or your goal plan. If your goal is right, your goal plan might have you starting at the wrong first step.

Back up and identify an action step you’re ready to tackle. It doesn’t matter how small it may seem. You’re often better off starting with a small step and achieving success – than starting off with a huge step you’re not ready to handle.

The I Mean Business Statement
Once you have refined your starting point, now notice how it feels like to say:

I am NOW …

This statement establishes a sense of power and intention. It says you truly mean business. That you believe in what you are saying, and you are right NOW taking a step to make it happen.

It means you are in action and have made a very real commitment to yourself that you are NOW honouring. It also says that you WILL find a way to get the task done, even if there is a bump in the road.

Higher levels of success are achieved by coming from the most passionate place within yourself, breaking your goal down into a series of achievable steps, then committing to each step one at a time starting NOW.

Because the truth is … you really can only do what is before you right now. Tomorrow’s larger success is built on today’s smaller successes. This NOW approach makes your success inevitable.

Get Mad and Get Going

March 19, 2009 by  
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A Tony Robbins Secret:

Feel like your life is stuck in a rut and going in circles? Maybe the time has come to put some powerful e-motion to work.

Emotion is actually one of the most powerful energies we humans have. It IS literally mental energy in motion. And certain emotions are so powerful they can instantly change your life.

What human emotions have such power? Anger and love – especially when fueled by the fire of passion (intense e-motion). Not much needs to be said about the ability of passionate love to change your life overnight. But how about passionate anger? Although passionate anger can be very powerful, its energy is not really bad or good. It is simply energy in motion.

Actually it is what you choose to DO with your anger that makes it a positive or negative force in your life. And as with any powerful e-motion, you can put it to work in both negative and positive ways.

If you have ever been captured by an uncontrollable rage, you have experienced a piece of the outer limits of what anger can become. On one level it is behind crimes of passion – and on the other hand, if can fuel the ability to strike back at a threat and survive.

But anger can also be a powerful force for personal transformation. Here’s how one impoverished young man used it to rapidly become a millionaire.

Here is a real life story about the power of anger. A man in his late twenties woke up in the dismal surroundings he called home – a very cheap hotel room with a sagging mattress, a flea-bitten armchair, a small table with a habit of losing a leg, and a single window opening onto a view of the next door soot-covered building.

He put on the shorts and socks that had dried on the chair overnight, pulled on a pair of rumpled trousers. Then he sank back down onto the edge of the mattress, rubbed his swollen, bloodshot eyes, and sighed.

Life was not going well for this young man. He was marginally educated and young – and his life was simply not moving in a positive direction. He bent over to put on his shoes, but instead threw one at the wall. His anger and frustration began to build, and he threw the other shoe at the wall.

His face blazed crimson. The frustration and self-loathing that had been building within suddenly erupted like a volcano. This is enough, he shouted. Enough of this disgusting lifestyle.

Today this same young man owns a multitude of successful businesses, and is highly regarded my millions of people. His initials are TR. Sound familiar? Tony is an example of how you can use passionate anger to literally turn your life around on a dime.

You too have choices about how to use the energy of anger. Suppose, for example you are struggling to make ends meet, like many people today. What can you do?

  • You can stuff it. But if you do so the problem will not go away. What repressed anger does is to make its home somewhere in your body and create more stress. Ever ask someone What’s eating you? Your intuition picked up on the repressed anger setting them up for ulcers, colitis, and other digestive disorders.
  • You can turn it against others. Not much needs to be said about how counter-productive this strategy can be.
  • You can work it out physically. The energy of anger can be transformed into physical energy, which is far more beneficial than stuffing your anger. Some common outlets are running, working out, etc. But this is not necessarily a lot of fun.
  • You can use it to motivate yourself. Think about what Tony Robbins did in his life. It is the same thing Eleanor Roosevelt did to transform herself from a homely, insecure young girl to a world respected leader. If your life is NOT what you want it to be, start by getting mad enough to take action.

Remember: Anger is just an emotion. But passionate anger can become a highly motivational and unstoppable energy in motion. Put it to work in your life as a positive force to lose weight, get a new job… whatever you NEED to make yourself happy. Just waiting for it to happen does NOT work, and never will.

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